Monday, February 2, 2009

Why Do I Do This?

I often get emails from people asking me why I continue to write this blog. The answers aren't quite clear:
- I haven't spoken to the BPD since December 8, 2007. However, I lived under her shadow and the cloud of her BPD and abuse for quite some time after. At first, you break out from this oppression. 
- I've had to redefine myself and my life as before my relationship with the BPD, I was finalizing a divorce. As such, I had some major personal issues before the BPD relationship began that were never settled when I started dating the BPD
- This blog is now followed by many who regularly contact and write me, asking me questions and telling me how much value they get from the blog. I like the fact that I can provide someone else with assistance and value
- It's a form of expression for me. What else is there to say?

I'll keep posting and blogging as long as necessary, or as long as I'm providing value. That's all I can promise. So for now, stay tuned...if you need it...